Well, my story goes back to the year 2002, a grad from IIT CSE. I gave CAT 2002 little realizing its importance. Just gave it casually. Then, I got fooled that it is better to give CAT after 2 years work ex. Got into a company with 2 years bond in 2003. wanted 2 months preparation and i asked for leave, but they didnt provide me. so, i broke the bond and prepared for 2 months and got the calls from iim k,l. but, cudn't convert them.
Then, i worked for the next 1.5 years for CAT, always scoring more than 95%ile. This year CAT 2005 was the twister, since the focus changed from speed to accuracy. and i got the twist of my life with 33%ile in DI.
Then, all my plans got blank and i had to take up a job in May 2006. Then, again i worked for CAT again. This time again, i didn't secure into IIMs. In the meantime, i screwed up my technical skills and after 1 year of hard work, i was promised of team leader position in product based company. But, i was cheated due to some politics and in 2008, i had to leave my job for better prospects.
Then, came recession, lost my job and got into some contract job that didnt give boost to my technical skills. So, i planned to take once again for 2009 and worked day in and day out.
The competition has gone way beyond my expections and i dont know what my future lies now.
I didn't develop my technical skills, screwed up CAT and i am nowhere since the contract job has also ended. Now, after so many years, you can imagine where i am now. All my friends and my juniors are well settled and in good positions. I ditched plans to go abroad for further studies in 2003( bcoz i was depressed that my childhood sweetheart got married and i lost the meaning of life. and from then onwards as well, i didnt go abroad bcoz i had this sicko ideals of love for motherland which i regret now that i shud have gone abroad)
A grad from iit cse, with no strong technical skills, screwed up life. and suicide seems the only way for me. My life is completely messed up. I have plans to buy potassium cyanide for easy death from a well trusted resource. You can see how i am faring now.
My life is completely ruined.
This must be included in 'All I want to speak about Cat'.
The stories over there give a lot of inspiration to go for IIMs but those stories sometimes make student overconfident, sometimes impractical dreames seems feasable, sometimes u leave good colleges to try and crack IIM next year . The stories does not include 99% students who once also had the dream of cracking IIms but they could not. The stories does not include the exponential rise in competition, the agony of 2009 batch. The story indulge you to leave a stable job even in the times of recession.
Well, my story goes back to the year 2002, a grad from IIT CSE. I gave CAT 2002 little realizing its importance. Just gave it casually. Then, I got fooled that it is better to give CAT after 2 years work ex. Got into a company with 2 years bond in 2003. wanted 2 months preparation and i asked for leave, but they didnt provide me. so, i broke the bond and prepared for 2 months and got the calls from iim k,l. but, cudn't convert them.
Then, i worked for the next 1.5 years for CAT, always scoring more than 95%ile. This year CAT 2005 was the twister, since the focus changed from speed to accuracy. and i got the twist of my life with 33%ile in DI.
Then, all my plans got blank and i had to take up a job in May 2006. Then, again i worked for CAT again. This time again, i didn't secure into IIMs. In the meantime, i screwed up my technical skills and after 1 year of hard work, i was promised of team leader position in product based company. But, i was cheated due to some politics and in 2008, i had to leave my job for better prospects.
Then, came recession, lost my job and got into some contract job that didnt give boost to my technical skills. So, i planned to take once again for 2009 and worked day in and day out.
The competition has gone way beyond my expections and i dont know what my future lies now.
I didn't develop my technical skills, screwed up CAT and i am nowhere since the contract job has also ended. Now, after so many years, you can imagine where i am now. All my friends and my juniors are well settled and in good positions. I ditched plans to go abroad for further studies in 2003( bcoz i was depressed that my childhood sweetheart got married and i lost the meaning of life. and from then onwards as well, i didnt go abroad bcoz i had this sicko ideals of love for motherland which i regret now that i shud have gone abroad)
A grad from iit cse, with no strong technical skills, screwed up life. and suicide seems the only way for me. My life is completely messed up. I have plans to buy potassium cyanide for easy death from a well trusted resource. You can see how i am faring now.
My life is completely ruined.
hi,
I am no surprised by this post. have been seeing similar posts by many from the past two days.Yaar, what do you get if you die?? You can do MBA? no right? Stop thinking negative. That sucks all your energy. First try to be positive, that's the initial step.
Now, coming to the other aspect. Man, you are from IIT.That itself is the testimonial of how intelligent and hard working you are. You already proved it once. SO that implies you have those qualities inherent in you. You just need to wake them up 😃 . Technical skills, what big deal yaar! You can start brushing up your skills and in lightning speed, you will be back to what you were. May be some years of yours were not as fruitful as what you thought they would be, but sure you learnt a lot.
The next thing is stay calm and evaluate various options that you have. To tell you, MBA is not everything. It's just a degree and you can do it at any point in your life. No need to take so much tension for it. Remember you carry a brand. Analyse what you are interested in.May be you can start a small firm. Or join a good IT firm after getting confident with your technical skills. Don't repeat the mistakes that you have done, if any. Or may be write GMAT, join good school.
Prioritize and work accordingly yaar. It is your life and no one can live it. So, you can never be a failure. I understand that out of frustration and dejection, we tend to feel the way you did. I am no exception. But i tried to overcome it. Calm mind is important for that. I read somewhere that : When you don't get what you want in life, just sit tight, stay calm and try to be happy. God is planning for better things in life for you 😃 .So cheer up!!
This must be included in 'All I want to speak about Cat'.
The stories over there give a lot of inspiration to go for IIMs but those stories sometimes make student overconfident, sometimes impractical dreames seems feasable, sometimes u leave good colleges to try and crack IIM next year . The stories does not include 99% students who once also had the dream of cracking IIms but they could not. The stories does not include the exponential rise in competition, the agony of 2009 batch. The story indulge you to leave a stable job even in the times of recession.
moderators, can this story of an IITan be included?????
Well, my story goes back to the year 2002, a grad from IIT CSE. I gave CAT 2002 little realizing its importance. Just gave it casually. Then, I got fooled that it is better to give CAT after 2 years work ex. Got into a company with 2 years bond in 2003. wanted 2 months preparation and i asked for leave, but they didnt provide me. so, i broke the bond and prepared for 2 months and got the calls from iim k,l. but, cudn't convert them.
Then, i worked for the next 1.5 years for CAT, always scoring more than 95%ile. This year CAT 2005 was the twister, since the focus changed from speed to accuracy. and i got the twist of my life with 33%ile in DI.
Then, all my plans got blank and i had to take up a job in May 2006. Then, again i worked for CAT again. This time again, i didn't secure into IIMs. In the meantime, i screwed up my technical skills and after 1 year of hard work, i was promised of team leader position in product based company. But, i was cheated due to some politics and in 2008, i had to leave my job for better prospects.
Then, came recession, lost my job and got into some contract job that didnt give boost to my technical skills. So, i planned to take once again for 2009 and worked day in and day out.
The competition has gone way beyond my expections and i dont know what my future lies now.
I didn't develop my technical skills, screwed up CAT and i am nowhere since the contract job has also ended. Now, after so many years, you can imagine where i am now. All my friends and my juniors are well settled and in good positions. I ditched plans to go abroad for further studies in 2003( bcoz i was depressed that my childhood sweetheart got married and i lost the meaning of life. and from then onwards as well, i didnt go abroad bcoz i had this sicko ideals of love for motherland which i regret now that i shud have gone abroad)
A grad from iit cse, with no strong technical skills, screwed up life. and suicide seems the only way for me. My life is completely messed up. I have plans to buy potassium cyanide for easy death from a well trusted resource. You can see how i am faring now.
My life is completely ruined.
My case is not as sad as yours but i request you not to resort to any stupid means.Please lose respect for you if u commit suicide bcoz it screws up your parents' lives as well.I think we shld be more focussed and try for MBA next also.All the Best.
Well, my story goes back to the year 2002, a grad from IIT CSE. I gave CAT 2002 little realizing its importance. Just gave it casually. Then, I got fooled that it is better to give CAT after 2 years work ex. Got into a company with 2 years bond in 2003. wanted 2 months preparation and i asked for leave, but they didnt provide me. so, i broke the bond and prepared for 2 months and got the calls from iim k,l. but, cudn't convert them.
Then, i worked for the next 1.5 years for CAT, always scoring more than 95%ile. This year CAT 2005 was the twister, since the focus changed from speed to accuracy. and i got the twist of my life with 33%ile in DI.
Then, all my plans got blank and i had to take up a job in May 2006. Then, again i worked for CAT again. This time again, i didn't secure into IIMs. In the meantime, i screwed up my technical skills and after 1 year of hard work, i was promised of team leader position in product based company. But, i was cheated due to some politics and in 2008, i had to leave my job for better prospects.
Then, came recession, lost my job and got into some contract job that didnt give boost to my technical skills. So, i planned to take once again for 2009 and worked day in and day out.
The competition has gone way beyond my expections and i dont know what my future lies now.
I didn't develop my technical skills, screwed up CAT and i am nowhere since the contract job has also ended. Now, after so many years, you can imagine where i am now. All my friends and my juniors are well settled and in good positions. I ditched plans to go abroad for further studies in 2003( bcoz i was depressed that my childhood sweetheart got married and i lost the meaning of life. and from then onwards as well, i didnt go abroad bcoz i had this sicko ideals of love for motherland which i regret now that i shud have gone abroad)
A grad from iit cse, with no strong technical skills, screwed up life. and suicide seems the only way for me. My life is completely messed up. I have plans to buy potassium cyanide for easy death from a well trusted resource. You can see how i am faring now.
My life is completely ruined.
I tell you a real story.There is a family in Mumbai which lives in dharawi slums.This family has 7 people in all.There are 5 children and their parents.Mr. Rehman is a ragpicker and the only earning member.He hardy makes Rs 150-300 in a day.He has 4 daughters and 1 son.His wife met with an accident 3 years ago while working in a glass factory and she lost her vision. They don't have enough money for her operation.Mr. Rehman's problem were not less and one more came when one of his daughter went missing.She went to buy bread and she didn't came back.He looked for her a lot but din't found her. You must be thinking what's the use of such a life where each day is like one more day close to death.Some may say that death is much better than such a kind of life.When one even doesn't know that will he get meal twice a day or not.But Mr.Rehman had faith on himself and his family that one day they will see good time when their all needs will be fulfilled easily.He sent his children to nearby government school and he used to work hard all the day.
Now i will take a leap of around 20 years
Mr Rehman owns a house in mumbai,his wife can see now,he owns recycling and garbage business which make him earn handsomely and allow him to fulfill all his needs.His children are well educated and 2 of them are helping in his business and the other 2 daughters are married in a good reputed family.You must be thinking how all this happened?????? I tell you how this happened ....Faith,passion,love for life,never give attitude.There are few things which our destiny or luck desides but its in our hands that we don't giveup and continue fighting.We think that our problem is the biggest problem in this world and we feel that it is the end of world.My friend look around you,open your eyes and see there are many in this world who hardly get 1 time meal a day,who don't have a roof on head.I totally agree that there is a time when one feel dejected but its you who will have to decide that What is bigger- Passion or dejection???? If your passion is bigger then don't even think to giveup and fight till you have got your last breath.If your dejection is getting bigger than passion then you were mistaken and MBA from IIM was not your passion my friend and there is no need to get dejected in that case as you were on a wrong track. You talk to commit suicide.....It will be just your family who will be the sufferer.Its the most painful thing for parents to do the funeral ceremony of their child.It will be only your family who will be the suffer and no one else in this world will be effected if someone commit suicide. My friend life is not about to giveup but its about fighting and fighting till you succeed.You may need to change the path but never stop dear.Commiting suicide is the most worst thing one can even think of.God has given this life and noone in this world has a right to ditch this beautiful gift. When one path closes 1000 new paths open but one needs a sight to find them.Be positive and love yourself to the extreme limits.When you start loving yourself you will take life more and more positively and your focus will get clear.You can take examples from history that the most successful people this world has seen went through lots of faliures.But they never gaveup and they fought continuosly.My friend i hope that you read what i wrote and understand what i really meant.I wish all the deserved success to you and hope that you will be positive towards life. Bill gates said that "I was never a topper in my university but all the toppers are my employees today"
Just sharing a poem that I draw inspiration from, every time I feel low. Remember, nothing is more valuable than a your life. Please dont take any extreme steps.
If - Rudyard Kipling If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you; If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or, being hated, don't give way to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master; If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with triumph and disaster And treat those two imposters just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to broken, And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breath a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on";
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch; If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you; If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run - Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it, And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!
One more thing guys...some may say that its easy to give advice but hard to follow.But friends i have a series of faliures associated with me and still i am fighting.I know my destination,my ultimate goal and i know i will find my way to it.So never giveup!!
I tell you a real story.There is a family in Mumbai which lives in dharawi slums.This family has 7 people in all.There are 5 children and their parents.Mr. Rehman is a ragpicker and the only earning member.He hardy makes Rs 150-300 in a day.He has 4 daughters and 1 son.His wife met with an accident 3 years ago while working in a glass factory and she lost her vision. They don't have enough money for her operation.Mr. Rehman's problem were not less and one more came when one of his daughter went missing.She went to buy bread and she didn't came back.He looked for her a lot but din't found her. You must be thinking what's the use of such a life where each day is like one more day close to death.Some may say that death is much better than such a kind of life.When one even doesn't know that will he get meal twice a day or not.But Mr.Rehman had faith on himself and his family that one day they will see good time when their all needs will be fulfilled easily.He sent his children to nearby government school and he used to work hard all the day.
Now i will take a leap of around 20 years
Mr Rehman owns a house in mumbai,his wife can see now,he owns recycling and garbage business which make him earn handsomely and allow him to fulfill all his needs.His children are well educated and 2 of them are helping in his business and the other 2 daughters are married in a good reputed family.You must be thinking how all this happened?????? I tell you how this happened ....Faith,passion,love for life,never give attitude.There are few things which our destiny or luck desides but its in our hands that we don't giveup and continue fighting.We think that our problem is the biggest problem in this world and we feel that it is the end of world.My friend look around you,open your eyes and see there are many in this world who hardly get 1 time meal a day,who don't have a roof on head.I totally agree that there is a time when one feel dejected but its you who will have to decide that What is bigger- Passion or dejection???? If your passion is bigger then don't even think to giveup and fight till you have got your last breath.If your dejection is getting bigger than passion then you were mistaken and MBA from IIM was not your passion my friend and there is no need to get dejected in that case as you were on a wrong track. You talk to commit suicide.....It will be just your family who will be the sufferer.Its the most painful thing for parents to do the funeral ceremony of their child.It will be only your family who will be the suffer and no one else in this world will be effected if someone commit suicide. My friend life is not about to giveup but its about fighting and fighting till you succeed.You may need to change the path but never stop dear.Commiting suicide is the most worst thing one can even think of.God has given this life and noone in this world has a right to ditch this beautiful gift. When one path closes 1000 new paths open but one needs a sight to find them.Be positive and love yourself to the extreme limits.When you start loving yourself you will take life more and more positively and your focus will get clear.You can take examples from history that the most successful people this world has seen went through lots of faliures.But they never gaveup and they fought continuosly.My friend i hope that you read what i wrote and understand what i really meant.I wish all the deserved success to you and hope that you will be positive towards life. Bill gates said that "I was never a topper in my university but all the toppers are my employees today"
very well said...and very inspiring....!!like someone once said: "its not about how hard u fall,its about how hard u keep coming back,everytime u fall"-----
Thanks a lot.I havent applied to SCIT but SIOM.What is BOFA by the way?I am in ITP in Hyderabad
Never mind u'd hav known if u were in Chennai...but ITP is worse..I can understand..I've never been in 1 but I know friends who are in ITP and they curse it all the time...but hold on tight u might get rollled in to a project soon which u just might like...who knows?? And u should hav applied to SCIT...it's more of business than IT..the specialization is ITBM.. and even though the main companies during placements will be the IT ones but you won't be limited only to the IT industry..as for SIOM dunno what to expect from them..but if u have a very good profile..u might just make it..
And don't lose hope buddy...life's not over yet...we all hav a long way to go..so chill and watch the movie The Shawank Redemption if u can...don't lose hope..:grin:
Never mind u'd hav known if u were in Chennai...but ITP is worse..I can understand..I've never been in 1 but I know friends who are in ITP and they curse it all the time...but hold on tight u might get rollled in to a project soon which u just might like...who knows?? And u should hav applied to SCIT...it's more of business than IT..the specialization is ITBM.. and even though the main companies during placements will be the IT ones but you won't be limited only to the IT industry..as for SIOM dunno what to expect from them..but if u have a very good profile..u might just make it..
And don't lose hope buddy...life's not over yet...we all hav a long way to go..so chill and watch the movie The Shawank Redemption if u can...don't lose hope..:grin:
I am from Chennai but i work in hyderabad.Are there any ABAP SE requirement in Chennai.
Well, my story goes back to the year 2002, a grad from IIT CSE. I gave CAT 2002 little realizing its importance. Just gave it casually. Then, I got fooled that it is better to give CAT after 2 years work ex. Got into a company with 2 years bond in 2003. wanted 2 months preparation and i asked for leave, but they didnt provide me. so, i broke the bond and prepared for 2 months and got the calls from iim k,l. but, cudn't convert them.
Then, i worked for the next 1.5 years for CAT, always scoring more than 95%ile. This year CAT 2005 was the twister, since the focus changed from speed to accuracy. and i got the twist of my life with 33%ile in DI.
Then, all my plans got blank and i had to take up a job in May 2006. Then, again i worked for CAT again. This time again, i didn't secure into IIMs. In the meantime, i screwed up my technical skills and after 1 year of hard work, i was promised of team leader position in product based company. But, i was cheated due to some politics and in 2008, i had to leave my job for better prospects.
Then, came recession, lost my job and got into some contract job that didnt give boost to my technical skills. So, i planned to take once again for 2009 and worked day in and day out.
The competition has gone way beyond my expections and i dont know what my future lies now.
I didn't develop my technical skills, screwed up CAT and i am nowhere since the contract job has also ended. Now, after so many years, you can imagine where i am now. All my friends and my juniors are well settled and in good positions. I ditched plans to go abroad for further studies in 2003( bcoz i was depressed that my childhood sweetheart got married and i lost the meaning of life. and from then onwards as well, i didnt go abroad bcoz i had this sicko ideals of love for motherland which i regret now that i shud have gone abroad)
A grad from iit cse, with no strong technical skills, screwed up life. and suicide seems the only way for me. My life is completely messed up. I have plans to buy potassium cyanide for easy death from a well trusted resource. You can see how i am faring now.
My life is completely ruined.
I dont want to tell you any inspirational story. but just want to tell u something.. IIT CSE is a great degree ,, but If you are not successful in life than it matters. But I love the way you dealed with life, that you have taken so much risk. From this I guess ke U must be a strong hearted person. So my sugession or request dont leave this attitute ,, take a better job or start a small business,, I am sure with all these experience in life you will do go. Like a business start a MBA preparation franchise(CL or TIME). Basically there is no need of degree to get success.. and CAT is not success. U must have seen so many entreprenaur with high success even dont have a masters degree.. I know surely u can do it.
Last but not least it is easy to give advice but hard to do,, But it is you who can do. So gear up now buddy.
Well, my story goes back to the year 2002, a grad from IIT CSE. I gave CAT 2002 little realizing its importance. Just gave it casually. Then, I got fooled that it is better to give CAT after 2 years work ex. Got into a company with 2 years bond in 2003. wanted 2 months preparation and i asked for leave, but they didnt provide me. so, i broke the bond and prepared for 2 months and got the calls from iim k,l. but, cudn't convert them.
Then, i worked for the next 1.5 years for CAT, always scoring more than 95%ile. This year CAT 2005 was the twister, since the focus changed from speed to accuracy. and i got the twist of my life with 33%ile in DI.
Then, all my plans got blank and i had to take up a job in May 2006. Then, again i worked for CAT again. This time again, i didn't secure into IIMs. In the meantime, i screwed up my technical skills and after 1 year of hard work, i was promised of team leader position in product based company. But, i was cheated due to some politics and in 2008, i had to leave my job for better prospects.
Then, came recession, lost my job and got into some contract job that didnt give boost to my technical skills. So, i planned to take once again for 2009 and worked day in and day out.
The competition has gone way beyond my expections and i dont know what my future lies now.
I didn't develop my technical skills, screwed up CAT and i am nowhere since the contract job has also ended. Now, after so many years, you can imagine where i am now. All my friends and my juniors are well settled and in good positions. I ditched plans to go abroad for further studies in 2003( bcoz i was depressed that my childhood sweetheart got married and i lost the meaning of life. and from then onwards as well, i didnt go abroad bcoz i had this sicko ideals of love for motherland which i regret now that i shud have gone abroad)
A grad from iit cse, with no strong technical skills, screwed up life. and suicide seems the only way for me. My life is completely messed up. I have plans to buy potassium cyanide for easy death from a well trusted resource. You can see how i am faring now.
My life is completely ruined.
Hey i can understand how you feel.I can also understand that just reading a bunch of inspirational stories is not going to heal your wound.Not only u but each one of us posting in this thread is going through a similar phase.Life is not easy.We just have to accept that fact.U r an IITian.That's undeniably brilliant.It's just that things went wrong in ur life and u shdnt blame urself bcoz if it was meant to happen it would have happened anyway.Ur life is not ruined.u r not 80 and u r definitely not alone bcoz u r in the right place-PG.this is a wonderful place probably the best i know bcoz we r all here to help each other n this is a place where u get friends for life.I screwed up my life too.it was my dream right from 10th class to do an MBA in a top b school but i figured out now that i'm probably cut out for something else.maybe i haven't been designed to become a manager.rather than trying to fit in maybe we shd try to find what really inspires us.after all we get just 1 life to live.It is definitely not too late and CAT isnt the end of the world.just calm urself down,keep all ur options on the table(there r many avenues for u just waiting to be discovered) and plan out.I also want to tell u that comparing urself with others will only make u feel like a fish out of the water so please try to get those thoughts out of ur head.i think the main problem is that u r hoarding too many thoughts in ur head so please spill everything to a friend u trust.it will give u relief and clear ur mind.Please dont do anything stupid and cheer up coz a vibrant future is in store for u.Go ahead-get to know urself better,learn to love urself and experience success.Let me reiterate that u r not alone.u have friends here.Take care.All the best!!!! P.S i just can't resist quoting Steve Jobs here "Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You've got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle."
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary."
Need your help, i have experience of 50 months ,as i scored good marks in SNAP 2009 so i left the job as i thought i will receive the call of some institutes.in SCIT could not clear cut off by 0.5 marks. I am quite depressed.
Dont know what future holds for me . I am really sad ,as this was my last chance . I am quite puzzled, and thinking of quitting.
Need your help, i have experience of 50 months ,as i scored good marks in SNAP 2009 so i left the job as i thought i will receive the call of some institutes.in SCIT could not clear cut off by 0.5 marks. I am quite depressed.
Dont know what future holds for me . I am really sad ,as this was my last chance . I am quite puzzled, and thinking of quitting.
Please help me .
Thanks
Hi Ajeet You have quite a good work experience.You deserve something better than SCIT.It was SCIT's loss not selecting you.This is one of the things that i keep telling people that always keep an option with you and never quit your job.So first of all find a job for yourself and i bet you will find it easily.If u need any help regarding that we are always there to give our input. Life is a mind game,what we think we start feeling that.Life always give chances but it depends on us that if we want to fight further or not.I always say that love yourself to the extreme limits.When you love yourself the most then you will always follow your passion and will always fight for it. I will suggest that take a job for now and give MBA another fight next year.And one last thing that "Noone can help you until and unless you want to help yourself" www.myviewsmycountry.blogspot.com
Need your help, i have experience of 50 months ,as i scored good marks in SNAP 2009 so i left the job as i thought i will receive the call of some institutes.in SCIT could not clear cut off by 0.5 marks. I am quite depressed.
Dont know what future holds for me . I am really sad ,as this was my last chance . I am quite puzzled, and thinking of quitting.
Please help me .
Thanks
My story on the same line. I Graduated from Good engineering college in 2008. I got into it because I was good academically till 12 th.
Got good placement was getting 25k a month without much of a work.
Then I thought, if I can get into good engineering college with my aptitude why cant I go for good MBA college.
The job was not good though. It was in mining sector. A major mining company. With lots of extra bonus and shares all expenses paid for living and eating. but isolated area. and other things...
I decided to leave job in sept.2009 prepare for CAT. CAT went good but then my own mistakes in other exams like JMET SNAP and XAT was the disaster for me.
Hopeing good from CAT. I have applied for almost every college in top 30 list. more than 25k has already gone. and now the question is What if I fail ...
I dont have job. I dont want to go back to my old sector.
what do you get if you die?? You can do MBA? no right? Stop thinking negative. That sucks all your energy. First try to be positive, that's the initial step.
aparnavalli Says
I read somewhere that : When you don't get what you want in life, just sit tight, stay calm and try to be happy. God is planning for better things in life for you 😃 .So cheer up!!
Guys Life is a journey for which none of us has a map ............ just keep with it . If I start posting about my set backs in college and other things ( non academic ) then even the whole world wide web may not be enough . . . . . . . some days are hard ........ the others harder , but it's upto you to see to it whether you give up or go on . I have motivated myself and am sure everyone facing doubts should too .
Guys Life is a journey for which none of us has a map ............ just keep with it . If I start posting about my set backs in college and other things ( non academic ) then even the whole world wide web may not be enough . . . . . . . some days are hard ........ the others harder , but it's upto you to see to it whether you give up or go on . I have motivated myself and am sure everyone facing doubts should too .
Hi , Thanks Ashish and Rohan for giving some inspiration.Another rejection from SITM i am dejected at my fate as ,prepared left job still no calls.Nor i am able to do the preparation of other upcoming exams, what would i do ,i am totally hopeless.what can i do ? As mentioned this was my last attempt for MBA ,with an experience of 50 months .still nonthing in my hand.
Hi , Thanks Ashish and Rohan for giving some inspiration.Another rejection from SITM i am dejected at my fate as ,prepared left job still no calls.Nor i am able to do the preparation of other upcoming exams, what would i do ,i am totally hopeless.what can i do ? As mentioned this was my last attempt for MBA ,with an experience of 50 months .still nonthing in my hand.
Please help me .
Thanks,
It happens yaar, most of us have felt this way at some point or other in our lives. U have to believe that the period you are going through right now is not your life, its just a phase of life. We make mistakes, we feel defeated and sometimes we hurt ourselves but still we should be open to learning and feeling new things. At difficult times we do have self doubts, both personally and professionally, but these are the times when you think about life and perspective in a more profound manner which helps to sort you out as person and make you realise what you are meant for. Stick to the fundamentals that you know in your are true, you'll do just fine.
