Hey guys, what I believe is that we should take whatever comes in our stride and accept the things as they are.Ups are downs are a part and parcel of life and very much define 'life'.
One will never understand the true meaning of success until he has something to compare it with 
All those people who intend on committing suicide just understand one thing that by doing so you'll land up in HELL and the MODs of Pagalguy will make sure that U get banned from there too!
Guys!!! When you are completely down & out and feel that the entire world has jostled past you, just try to find a friend who's also in the same situation as you are...Atleast, you'll feel happy that you aren't the only person who's going through sh*it at the moment!
girtein hain shehsawar hi maidan-e-jung mein...... wo tifl kya girein jo ghutno ke bal chalein
srktugga SaysHi Puys.I have written everything this season.IIFT,CAT,JMET,SNAP,XAT,FMS.I thought i did well in SNAP but got only 88.5.I thought i would get a call from SIIB and SIBM-B.But it did'nt happen.This Feb,I will be completing 36 months in Accenture.I am really frustrated and worried abt my future.Im writing NMAT,MAHCET and MICA.I am not able to give my best to NMAT and other future exam preparations.Dreams of an MBA are slowly withering away.Someone plz tell me what to do.
I am sailing in the same boat as you. I have 39 months experience with Infosys. I have given all these exams. I cleared IIFT written 3 times including this year and still unsure whether I'll get through. I also gave XAT 4 times - my %iles were - 57.33, 96.00, 95.23 & 99.78. It was extremely difficult to stay motivated these 4 years. I knew I was not Einstein but I kept trying hard. I never gave up. If you really want something nothing can stop you from achieving it. Don't ever jump to conclusions so soon.
iitbulls Saysyaar suicide karni hai to kar lo , baar baar pakao mat ... agar dum hai to karke dikhana
Shame on you for posting such rude and insensitive comments.
I know IT jobs can be really frustrating but it is not so at times, you must be lucky to have a job right now . If anything does not happen give your GMAT with this preparation and get into other B schools next year. You never have to give up or get frustrated , there are 100 examples in this world where they are worst than you .. Look up to your life it has lots to take and give !!
mridul1 SaysShame on you for posting such rude and insensitive comments.
No am not ashamed of myself for putting up that line , most of the ppl putting up these msgs of suicide are faking it , just waiting to get a response. and if smbdy really wants to do it thn i dont think that they even hav the guts to take that decision nahi wont b posting here on a forum that they are planning to commit suicide. I m no counsellor but do understand the human psychology well enough to knw wat such ppl r capable of doing and not doing. If the cant get up in their life from failures than they cannot survive in this competitive world. Even i am not doing a job for past 10 months, havent recvd a call frm FMS , did nt apply to many colleges but that does not mean that i start thinking about suicide. I am not a coward and am not ashamed of it.
Not everyone's life is rosy picture , everyone has got problems to deal with , some more than others. CAT was given by 2.4 lakh students and everybody knew from the very beginning that only a handful of thousand lucky will end up in good mgmt institutes, so either u gear up to be among those lucky few or get ready to brace urself for the failure and if u r not upto both the tasks thn dont enter urself into such competitive scenario.
So either be a man and stand upto things or if u think u hav more guts than that and want to commit suicide thn go ahead, but blv me it can also be a very tough decision to make but atleast dont b a wimp and start complaining.
If the cant get up in their life from failures than they cannot survive in this competitive world, so either u gear up to be among those lucky few or get ready to brace urself for the failure and if u r not upto both the tasks thn dont enter urself into such competitive scenario.
So either be a man and stand upto things or if u think u hav more guts than that and want to commit suicide thn go ahead, but blv me it can also be a very tough decision to make but atleast dont b a wimp and start complaining.
I understand the idea behind your posts and 100% agree with the above points. 😃 But there has to be a more diplomatic way of putting them across. Don't you agree?
Hey dude...first of all I am glad to find out that you are alive to ready my comment . A few points :
1) Chilllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
2) If IIT couldn't change your life , what's the guarantee that IIM will ???
3) Mental strength is the key to success ...nothing else
4) Just education from a good institute can't get you everything in life
5) Look deep inside you ....find out 'as of today' what you are good at ...and put next two years in that ...you are just 28
6) Your childhood dream love can still come back :).....mine did :).....be positive :)....its not necessary that if she got married your love for her ends....
7) The only difference between you and me is that I was always positive and always managed to found out a 'back-up' plan ...just because of my attitude..
Best of luck
Remember : 'BE POSITIVE....NOT HIV POSITIVE ' :)
Ponting
hi ...its my first post ..i m in truble an in dipression ...i give my cat 2 nd tym ..apart frm cat i give all entrnce exam ..bt i cudnt do well .......now i hav jst a liTtil hope with cat reslt ...i m very frustrated.
in 14 th march i give my last entrnce exam MFC.my confidence is dwn to earth.actuly my prblm is diffrnt,i love a girl an i wan to marry her.whn one day i prposed her she said it is posible only whn if u will take admission in a good colog....i m in tnsn .pls suggst me wat i do ???/pls pls pla help me ......
And weird as it may seem after the girl tells u sumthin like this u still wanna b wid her
get a head n think buddy..she aint for u..any girl who says sumthin like this doesnt want u bt sumthin els!!!
Thanks 4 ur advice.
:)
Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy BRO CHILLLLLLLLL DOWN BHAI.....
Please please please relaxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.....and wenevr u again have dis kinda thought jus brng ur parents face in front of you...
you cant e1 imagine wat wud b der situation if u commit these kind of sinful acts
plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz bhai be calm and think wid cool...
cmon man u are a brave guy ...u cannot e1 thnk such petty thngs...
and life me porbs to ate rahenge...dat doesnt mean u start thnking of such thngs...
bhai its time to show ur courage, ur metal, ur bravery,ur toughness.Its only dat God is testing you..and trust me gods xam is d easiest as compared to XAT,CAT,SNAP and blah blah..u jus need to be calm and take d pain for dat short time..
trust me mate...if u pass dis xam u gonna reach gr8 heights wich u evr havnt e1 imagined in the wildest of ur dreams...
Cmon man....promise us dat u wont do any such activity....
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND HOPE YOU DO MAKE YOUR PARENTS PROUD
Thanks a lot friend I really wanted these words from someone....hope u too achieve great heights in ur life.....one more thing I am a girl not a guy:)
Hi Ashish,
I need ur help.How i can contact you ?
Thanks,
Try to use Private message. whenever he comes online, he will get your message.
Hope it helps.
When you were born was it Infy or IIM'S that brought that world's best smile on your parents face?? Guys do think million rather trillion times to say such a disguisting word like Suicide.Ok tell me what will you do if you get a call from IIM?? Life's meaning is not about getting admission in a good institute,earn a package of 22 lakhs,owning a merc,having a 36-24-36 figure girl friend.You are born with a purpose and its not necessary that you will be a jack of all trades,just identify your purpose of life.When you do that then look for the different paths that take you till your destination and ur ultimate passion.You will fail but those faliures will become the ladder to your success.If i start telling you my faliures i can write a Granth on it but i believe in myself and my capabilities and that's what taking me closer to my destination.Each faliure motivates me to work hard.Guys love yourself the most and when you start loving yourself you will not say such dejected things.Life is sooo sooo beautiful and you are wasting it by engaging yourself in those things which are the most irrelevant.You got into Infosys man and you got in just because you were that good.Make sure that in fututre whatever you want to pursue in life should be that in which you believe fully.This world has so lots of problems.....many people even do not get once a mean in a day,many do not have roof on their heads,many children are forced to work because they are poor.Guys everday say thanks to that almighty god that he has given you so much.Best of luck and hope that you will do great in future.
"You cannot change your past but you can surely change your future"
Through this mail I would like to thank all of u from the bottom of my heart.....u all have been so kind and generous...and it is just so amazing to see that Thank u so much guys....had it not been ur advice I seriously would have taken some wrong steps but after ur encouraging words I can see myself fighting again....Thank u all.thank u pagalguy...:)
I posted this on all team thread, just posting it here as well, hope it helps
Well I could not resist myself from writing this post, as I am seeing many things that are pretty obvious and are happening,I have been following PG from quite some time almost 2 years but made an account only this year.
Well all my fellow puys, I will not say that dont get dejected or something better is in store for you, as nobody knows what will happen in future, and dejection and depresion are bound to happen, as it is not only part of CAT game but also part of life, just imagine even if we are not preparing for CAT , we might be doing something else, somebody will be fighting for job, somebody for shift, or something or the other, but the point is fight will remain life is stuggle, better to admit that. We will get good as well as bad phases, but dont analyse much with word like I would have done this or that, I m so unlucky, because these things hapeen with everybody, your father might have faced many problems in life, but he will never let you know. Whosoever we are seeing today as a successful person has done quite a bit struggle, in his life. It is only we are seeing him in a good phase we think that he not done any struggle and we are facing so failures. Believe me it doesnot happen very often. There will be see saw rides in life and that makes the game interesting, what is the fun of living a,life where you dont have freedom to make mistakes, It may appear as a conodlence from someone giving gyaan, but i also have messed up XL and IIFT calls by a whisker, but i dont want to wrtie that in my sginature as it will generate a neagtive energy for myself. and foremost I dont want to worry much about my failures as I have t take them in stirde like i take my failres.
We have been belsed with so many things, we have a good job r are trying for it, we have parents . Rejections are part of game called life.
In the context of pagalguy and CAT, I will say in some time from now, CAT results will be out, People will be crying, laughin, rejoicing, drinking, dancing,some may go ahead and think of suicide as well, NO, I am not exagerating, I have experinced as one my friend did that, He was expecting All 6 call but due to CAT 2006 verbal fiasco he got no call, and took the extreme step. So these are the moments in which one has to take control of oneself, as in these moments the negative energy takes you over and you can dont think of anything else. you friend will say evrything will be alright, but you will say them that you dont know how u fell when u get rejected, but believe me they might not be knowing but they want you to fight and most importantly live peacefully for you parents and you loved ones.
Every year jobs, personal relationships ar being sacrificed for CAT, someget the result and some may not, but tpoint if move on and look ahead. Nothing is bigger then life and you may get another chance
What I have introspected is that, There are few things in bhagwat gita which if you just read daily will give you peace:-
I wote this As I see people quting from the teams at PG, who might have missed a call by a whisker, but DESTINY is somehting in CAT as welll as life you accept it or not, soner or later you realize it, may be for example silent_assain may excel more at XL then in any other IIM, and may be he will get a profile there which is not given at some of the IIM's.
The point is dont quit and car on whateve you want to do because quiting is not a solution but living is
Thanks to all team members for there patience to read this long post. And ATB to all fo CAT results, you are all gud enuff i must say it is just a matter of time.
Well I could not resist myself from writing this post, as I am seeing many things that are pretty obvious and are happening,I have been following PG from quite some time almost 2 years but made an account only this year.
Well all my fellow puys, I will not say that dont get dejected or something better is in store for you, as nobody knows what will happen in future, and dejection and depresion are bound to happen, as it is not only part of CAT game but also part of life, just imagine even if we are not preparing for CAT , we might be doing something else, somebody will be fighting for job, somebody for shift, or something or the other, but the point is fight will remain life is stuggle, better to admit that. We will get good as well as bad phases, but dont analyse much with word like I would have done this or that, I m so unlucky, because these things hapeen with everybody, your father might have faced many problems in life, but he will never let you know. Whosoever we are seeing today as a successful person has done quite a bit struggle, in his life. It is only we are seeing him in a good phase we think that he not done any struggle and we are facing so failures. Believe me it doesnot happen very often. There will be see saw rides in life and that makes the game interesting, what is the fun of living a,life where you dont have freedom to make mistakes, It may appear as a conodlence from someone giving gyaan, but i also have messed up XL and IIFT calls by a whisker, but i dont want to wrtie that in my sginature as it will generate a neagtive energy for myself. and foremost I dont want to worry much about my failures as I have t take them in stirde like i take my failres.
We have been belsed with so many things, we have a good job r are trying for it, we have parents . Rejections are part of game called life.
In the context of pagalguy and CAT, I will say in some time from now, CAT results will be out, People will be crying, laughin, rejoicing, drinking, dancing,some may go ahead and think of suicide as well, NO, I am not exagerating, I have experinced as one my friend did that, He was expecting All 6 call but due to CAT 2006 verbal fiasco he got no call, and took the extreme step. So these are the moments in which one has to take control of oneself, as in these moments the negative energy takes you over and you can dont think of anything else. you friend will say evrything will be alright, but you will say them that you dont know how u fell when u get rejected, but believe me they might not be knowing but they want you to fight and most importantly live peacefully for you parents and you loved ones.
Every year jobs, personal relationships ar being sacrificed for CAT, someget the result and some may not, but tpoint if move on and look ahead. Nothing is bigger then life and you may get another chance
What I have introspected is that, There are few things in bhagwat gita which if you just read daily will give you peace:-
- The output of the karma is not in your hands but karma is in your hands.The human pain and frustraion is because of our attachment with the output and not that much with input. How many of ous will regret of not studying poperly then not getting an IIM call. I am not blaming anyone as i am also in your category.
- It is the expecations and not the resuls which take our peace away, we cannot nullify expectation but we can minimize them
I wote this As I see people quting from the teams at PG, who might have missed a call by a whisker, but DESTINY is somehting in CAT as welll as life you accept it or not, soner or later you realize it, may be for example silent_assain may excel more at XL then in any other IIM, and may be he will get a profile there which is not given at some of the IIM's.
The point is dont quit and car on whateve you want to do because quiting is not a solution but living is
Thanks to all team members for there patience to read this long post. And ATB to all fo CAT results, you are all gud enuff i must say it is just a matter of time.
No am not ashamed of myself for putting up that line , most of the ppl putting up these msgs of suicide are faking it , just waiting to get a response. and if smbdy really wants to do it thn i dont think that they even hav the guts to take that decision nahi wont b posting here on a forum that they are planning to commit suicide. I m no counsellor but do understand the human psychology well enough to knw wat such ppl r capable of doing and not doing. If the cant get up in their life from failures than they cannot survive in this competitive world. Even i am not doing a job for past 10 months, havent recvd a call frm FMS , did nt apply to many colleges but that does not mean that i start thinking about suicide. I am not a coward and am not ashamed of it.
Not everyone's life is rosy picture , everyone has got problems to deal with , some more than others. CAT was given by 2.4 lakh students and everybody knew from the very beginning that only a handful of thousand lucky will end up in good mgmt institutes, so either u gear up to be among those lucky few or get ready to brace urself for the failure and if u r not upto both the tasks thn dont enter urself into such competitive scenario.
So either be a man and stand upto things or if u think u hav more guts than that and want to commit suicide thn go ahead, but blv me it can also be a very tough decision to make but atleast dont b a wimp and start complaining.
Once a while comes a person who pretends like he is some sort of a "truth doctor" who will tell things like it is. Your view on this is narrow, insensitive and tbh quite crap. And since, in your mind, you think you're some logic guru, let me tell you why in a way you will understand
1. You're acting all macho right now but don't pretend like you have never had weak emotional moments in your life. Maybe when your girlfriend left you or when you have lost a tonne of money or hell, in your case, the team you support lost a game. Everyone has them. And this is specifically what a "community" is for. To help people out. This is a community meant for people with problems related to management entrances and you are very well going to get people who get butted out by the rigours of this process. If some person feels strong enough to come to this site and lay down their personal problems, I'd give them a hearing atleast.
2. Agreed that most don't have the "guts" to commit suicide. But are you willing to take that risk? Do you know what your comment or in some cases lack of help from the community might push them to do? Even if over the next 20 years this thread actually manages to save 1 person's life or even save one from injury, would you say it is worth it? You managers call it Cost Benefit analysis
3. Fine, you felt this was more of an attention seeking venture than anything else. Then why post? You could've very well stayed out and noone needed to hear your reckless comment. Forums work on that principle. Don't like it, don't click it. I bet not one person actually gained from your rhetoric where you're potraying others as pathetic people.
4. We all are convinced that you're a man who can face the worse of circumstances. Maybe some aren't. Give them that leeway. Let them vent their frustration. Let them be counselled by people who are actually concerned. Everyome also knows life is not rosy. But while facing the vagaries, if someone feels the need to take some advice on an anonymous forum that might actually help them, who are you to tell them something as irresponsible as to go ahead and kill themselves.
I bet you're a great person in life. I know many like you. They're not bad people. Just have alot of growing up to do. Especially in the thinking then saying department.
Why suicide talks are going on here?? i saw many puys saying that they want to commit suicide.. why??? taking a short cut to end your problems??
but what will be achieved by doing so?? comments by people abt how weak hearted he/she was..etc..
please dont think such things rather prepare yourself for the coming time.. you never know what is in store for you guys
just Cheers... 
and enjoy ur life to its fullest.. 
I am posting some of the stuff which prem_ravi posted on the underdogs thread.
Rejection is a part of life...Many of you would have experienced it in some form or the other...
If you have the patience to go through the final call getters profile..You might see many cases wherein the person had got nothing for the first few results but finally he/she has cracked it left right & centre..
Examples: DILSERE: CAT 03-77%ile, CAT 04-88%ile & CAT 05 - 99.5+ %ile..All six calls & did MBA from IIMA..
AWR-Anupam will return after 3 trials he got into IIMB
SOMNAME: He got through IIMC in his 4th attempt
Amrutesh666: Got through IIMC in his 4th attempt when he didnt care a damn about MBA & was preparing hard for CFA
AMITNSITIAN: Got through IIMC in his 7th attempt after joining FMS
SATANICA: Got through IIMC in his 5th attempt
CATDAEMON: Got through IIMC in his 3 rd attempt
Live2Die: Got through IIMC in his 4th attempt
AnirIIMA: Got through IIMA in his 4th attempt
and so on..
Point is simple, these guys either have not got any calls in the prior years or could not convert their calls..In plain words, they were trying hard like you, they were also dinged at level 1 or level 2, they were also dissappointed, they also cried..But they BOUNCED BACK..
Never give up, never say good bye unless until you feel you have a better option (in terms of happiness , not in terms of money)..
Success takes some time, believe in that...You have worked hard..if not this time, there is always a next time...For people who think Iam giving a free gyan..here is my CAT history..
CAT 2002- prepared, could not appear due to family reasons
CAT 2003-prepared, could not appear due to family reasons
CAT 2004-prepared, could not appear due to family reasons
CAT 2005-prepared, could not appear due to family reasons
CAT 2006- IIMA reject
CAT 2007-No calls, XAT- XLRI - reject, NMIMS - didnt appear for PI
CAT 2008-IIML reject, XAT - XLRI (GM)-Convert..
JOURNEY DOESNT STOP HERE TILL I WANT TO, THE STORY WILL RESUME some day..
Its not craziness, its called as Passion..I havent disliked the process so far..Feel free (most of you have my numbers) for any further help required to digest the reality fast & to gear up for the next course of action..
Remember "REJECTION IS GREATEST MOTIVATION IN LIFE" provided you believe in it. It gives you that extra power/stamina to move towards your destiny wich under normal circumstances you wouldn't ave realised .
All the Best..
Rejection is a part of life...Many of you would have experienced it in some form or the other...
If you have the patience to go through the final call getters profile..You might see many cases wherein the person had got nothing for the first few results but finally he/she has cracked it left right & centre..
Examples: DILSERE: CAT 03-77%ile, CAT 04-88%ile & CAT 05 - 99.5+ %ile..All six calls & did MBA from IIMA..
AWR-Anupam will return after 3 trials he got into IIMB
SOMNAME: He got through IIMC in his 4th attempt
Amrutesh666: Got through IIMC in his 4th attempt when he didnt care a damn about MBA & was preparing hard for CFA
AMITNSITIAN: Got through IIMC in his 7th attempt after joining FMS
SATANICA: Got through IIMC in his 5th attempt
CATDAEMON: Got through IIMC in his 3 rd attempt
Live2Die: Got through IIMC in his 4th attempt
AnirIIMA: Got through IIMA in his 4th attempt
and so on..
Point is simple, these guys either have not got any calls in the prior years or could not convert their calls..In plain words, they were trying hard like you, they were also dinged at level 1 or level 2, they were also dissappointed, they also cried..But they BOUNCED BACK..
Never give up, never say good bye unless until you feel you have a better option (in terms of happiness , not in terms of money)..
Success takes some time, believe in that...You have worked hard..if not this time, there is always a next time...For people who think Iam giving a free gyan..here is my CAT history..
CAT 2002- prepared, could not appear due to family reasons
CAT 2003-prepared, could not appear due to family reasons
CAT 2004-prepared, could not appear due to family reasons
CAT 2005-prepared, could not appear due to family reasons
CAT 2006- IIMA reject
CAT 2007-No calls, XAT- XLRI - reject, NMIMS - didnt appear for PI
CAT 2008-IIML reject, XAT - XLRI (GM)-Convert..
JOURNEY DOESNT STOP HERE TILL I WANT TO, THE STORY WILL RESUME some day..
Its not craziness, its called as Passion..I havent disliked the process so far..Feel free (most of you have my numbers) for any further help required to digest the reality fast & to gear up for the next course of action..
Remember "REJECTION IS GREATEST MOTIVATION IN LIFE" provided you believe in it. It gives you that extra power/stamina to move towards your destiny wich under normal circumstances you wouldn't ave realised .
All the Best..
My story in short
2009 passout. 6 months experience. Gave all exams. Only call from SCIT.
But I want to get something better by giving all exams next year.
The problem: I have a girlfriend who also is 2009 passout i.e. of my age. Her parents want me to take admission in SCIT if results come out positive cuz they want to marry us asap. Their point of view is that she has a younger sister and so want to marry off us asap.
How do I convince them that I wanna focus on my career?
I hope SCIT rejects me....