2009 passout. 6 months experience. Gave all exams. Only call from SCIT.
But I want to get something better by giving all exams next year.
The problem: I have a girlfriend who also is 2009 passout i.e. of my age. Her parents want me to take admission in SCIT if results come out positive cuz they want to marry us asap. Their point of view is that she has a younger sister and so want to marry off us asap.
How do I convince them that I wanna focus on my career?
I hope SCIT rejects me....
well get married and then build ur career. you can go for one year program rather than 2 years. My personal opinion, so please think 1000 times before buying it. No offence to anyone.
hi ...its my first post ..i m in truble an in dipression ...i give my cat 2 nd tym ..apart frm cat i give all entrnce exam ..bt i cudnt do well .......now i hav jst a liTtil hope with cat reslt ...i m very frustrated. in 14 th march i give my last entrnce exam MFC.my confidence is dwn to earth.actuly my prblm is diffrnt,i love a girl an i wan to marry her.whn one day i prposed her she said it is posible only whn if u will take admission in a good colog....i m in tnsn .pls suggst me wat i do ???/pls pls pla help me ......
And weird as it may seem after the girl tells u sumthin like this u still wanna b wid her
get a head n think buddy..she aint for u..any girl who says sumthin like this doesnt want u bt sumthin els!!!
Jab accha cllg mil jaaega tab to bhut mil jaengi dost...Par jo abhi haath pakad le vahi saccha pyaar hai... Just think about your situation from somebody else's point of view and only then you're gonna see the real picture. Apni jaga kissi aur ko aur uski jaga apne aap ko rkh kar soch..
well get married and then build ur career. you can go for one year program rather than 2 years. My personal opinion, so please think 1000 times before buying it. No offence to anyone.
Wel i will agree with shanks, i would like to add, it is only in our mind that we cannot prepare after marriage, believe me lot of m feinds chucked colges which hey didnt wanted to join and prepared anuther year and t thru.
and also these things are pretty emotional, college you can get another year, but if the girl you luv is not with you, then it takes gaes to come out from it, ans you will not think of college then
so my take if you get something better go for it, other wise get married and prepare well, you r a young guy and an old person man,
Is this some kind of a joke? What is this talk about suicide as if it is some new fashion in vogue. I am far older than you guys and have seen life enough. Those who intend to stupidly snuff out their lives don't write about it and ask for advice. You are not marrying, you are trying to die. So stop wasting your time, go back and start studying.
Regards, Sourav.
Hi man,
Dont talk like that...... i know how it feels to be dejected each and every year by IIMs....... and I am 28 years now.... Try to sympathise with the sufferers.
i m a graduate an engg (EECE-2009 passout),i am a person who believes in hard work...coz it always pays but sometimes dunno what whether its destiny or something else that my belief on hard work dwindles.i got 91 % in 12th which i never expected on the other side was sure of a gud rank in AIEEE which didn come true 😞 then i didn expect anything in clg life ..dunno how i got top position in 1st yr and then scholarships through all the 4yrs (ofcourse i worked hard but didn do it to top in class)..may be it is like when i do it with intention it never comes true and when i do it without expectation it works...:P now got placed in SATYAM(doob gai..no joining),and then in iflex solutions now called as oracle financial solutions ...was very happy when i got placed...but still they havent provided joining...where as all other classmates got into infy ...nd i cudnt clear apti (a very big shock:-() cat 08 :80 %ile 😞 :(...got nervous and screwed VA nd DI 😞 :( in QA97 %ile ...dunno what happened in exam XAT 08:93%ile got call from GIM cudnt convert:-(:-( cat 09:41-42 attempts ...pata nai kya banega iska XAT 09:80 %ile va me 20%ile:banghead::banghead::banghead: last yr VA me 91%ile in XAT .....kya conclude karu.....is my VA that bad...??.:banghead::banghead: JMET09:58.5:banghead::banghead: it feels real bad....m sitting at home ...where as other ppl with avg marks got into infy and are about to get into projects...... CAT is the only hope left....its like yyyy did it happen with me....but that really doesnt mean i should suicide ....but still it feels like when i deserve something and am working hard for it then yyy m i not being provided with what i truely desire...where as there are many people who get things without even working hard....:nono:
2009 passout. 6 months experience. Gave all exams. Only call from SCIT.
But I want to get something better by giving all exams next year.
The problem: I have a girlfriend who also is 2009 passout i.e. of my age. Her parents want me to take admission in SCIT if results come out positive cuz they want to marry us asap. Their point of view is that she has a younger sister and so want to marry off us asap.
How do I convince them that I wanna focus on my career?
I hope SCIT rejects me....
hi dude, just make ur love to convince wat ever happens.Dont give up.Taking decisions should be made exact.Ask them to wait.Explain wat the status is.only u can do it.I m also 2009 passed out.I can understand you.Explain the girl first.Then go with her to their parents.U ll get the bright future.
2009 passout. 6 months experience. Gave all exams. Only call from SCIT.
But I want to get something better by giving all exams next year.
The problem: I have a girlfriend who also is 2009 passout i.e. of my age. Her parents want me to take admission in SCIT if results come out positive cuz they want to marry us asap. Their point of view is that she has a younger sister and so want to marry off us asap.
How do I convince them that I wanna focus on my career?
I hope SCIT rejects me....
Hi Nuff You love your girlfriend the most right?? And if you do,so it will be an easy job for you to convince her parents.Tell them that you want a better future for both of you and that can be attained if you pursue the right career.It will be an year gap but this gap will fill lots of future gaps.For a happily married life both personal and professional life needs to be balanced.Tell them that you still have time and you are young and can take out 1 year to pursue your passion.Tell them that this decision of yours will rather bring happiness once you get married.Ask them a chance and give your best shot my dear friend.Look for a job for now so you can meet your needs for this year and your parents and your girl friend's parents feel bit relaxed to see this.I assure you that they will happily agree as they also love you and want a better life for you.All the best.
Thanks a lot friend I really wanted these words from someone....hope u too achieve great heights in ur life.....one more thing I am a girl not a guy:)
Wowwwwwwww....breaking news...PG has saved some 1's life........hope u dun bring such thoughts again..:sneaky:
Once a while comes a person who pretends like he is some sort of a "truth doctor" who will tell things like it is. Your view on this is narrow, insensitive and tbh quite crap. And since, in your mind, you think you're some logic guru, let me tell you why in a way you will understand
1. You're acting all macho right now but don't pretend like you have never had weak emotional moments in your life. Maybe when your girlfriend left...............
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awesome man....agree to each and evry point of urs :thumbsup:....wasnt able to resist e1 aftr pressing thnx button...
2009 passout. 6 months experience. Gave all exams. Only call from SCIT.
But I want to get something better by giving all exams next year.
The problem: I have a girlfriend who also is 2009 passout i.e. of my age. Her parents want me to take admission in SCIT if results come out positive cuz they want to marry us asap. Their point of view is that she has a younger sister and so want to marry off us asap.
How do I convince them that I wanna focus on my career?
I hope SCIT rejects me....
Seriously! Marriage is NOT a party. :banghead:
It seems most people are of the opinion that it is one nice party full of relatives and friends and thats it you can go home and sleep happy.
Marriage is a RESPONSIBILITY. I don't know how you intend to take care of emotional/physical and financial requirements of the girl after marriage - while you study for 2 years. What about your work load at the bschool?
I am working and I have/had (not revealing the status 😛 ) a boyfriend studying in an IIM - and BELIEVE me we can't/couldn't manage to talk half hour a day in peace and that too the discussion is/was on decision trees and case studies!
I would suggest that you marry AFTER your MBA , whenever that is. Maybe you could get engaged to show your commitment to the relationship to your girlfriend and her family.
Meanwhile, ask your girlfriend to do something worthwhile in her career also - instead of looking to marry as soon as she is done with college.
i m a graduate an engg (EECE-2009 passout),i am a person who believes in hard work...coz it always pays but sometimes dunno what whether its destiny or something else that my belief on hard work dwindles.i got 91 % in 12th which i never expected on the other side was sure of a gud rank in AIEEE which didn come true 😞 then i didn expect anything in clg life ..dunno how i got top position in 1st yr and then scholarships through all the 4yrs (ofcourse i worked hard but didn do it to top in class)..may be it is like when i do it with intention it never comes true and when i do it without expectation it works...:P now got placed in SATYAM(doob gai..no joining),and then in iflex solutions now called as oracle financial solutions ...was very happy when i got placed...but still they havent provided joining...where as all other classmates got into infy ...nd i cudnt clear apti (a very big shock:-() cat 08 :80 %ile 😞 :(...got nervous and screwed VA nd DI 😞 :( in QA97 %ile ...dunno what happened in exam XAT 08:93%ile got call from GIM cudnt convert:-(:-( cat 09:41-42 attempts ...pata nai kya banega iska XAT 09:80 %ile va me 20%ile:banghead::banghead::banghead: last yr VA me 91%ile in XAT .....kya conclude karu.....is my VA that bad...??.:banghead::banghead: JMET09:58.5:banghead::banghead: it feels real bad....m sitting at home ...where as other ppl with avg marks got into infy and are about to get into projects...... CAT is the only hope left....its like yyyy did it happen with me....but that really doesnt mean i should suicide ....but still it feels like when i deserve something and am working hard for it then yyy m i not being provided with what i truely desire...where as there are many people who get things without even working hard....:nono:
You know you have that killer attitude in you girl.When a person get a hard fought success its taste multiples trillion times.You are good that's why you achieved so much in life and you can achieve more and more with continuous hard work.The most successful people in this world got success not because they were born intelligent rather they fought and fought and never gave up.They were able to do this because they loved what they were pursuing.Just figure out your passion and then start your fight with a new beginning.Thank god for every success and for every failure too.Life teaches at every moment and failures make you a bettre person,provided you learn from them and don't feel dejected.Never look to others and think that they got it easily and i din't.Compete with yourself and try to make yourself better.I will wish lots of success for you.
"Reasonable people get accustomed according to world and the unreasonable one's make the world to accustom according to them"
well get married and then build ur career. you can go for one year program rather than 2 years. My personal opinion, so please think 1000 times before buying it. No offence to anyone.
I also feel that you may get married and then build your carrier ( if there is no other alternative) . wat if you gf parents marrysd her to someone due to their haste ... than you will land in grat depression and will find hard to come out. carrier can be build . you are just 2009 passout
2009 passout. 6 months experience. Gave all exams. Only call from SCIT.
But I want to get something better by giving all exams next year.
The problem: I have a girlfriend who also is 2009 passout i.e. of my age. Her parents want me to take admission in SCIT if results come out positive cuz they want to marry us asap. Their point of view is that she has a younger sister and so want to marry off us asap.
How do I convince them that I wanna focus on my career?
I hope SCIT rejects me....
I also feel that you may get married and then build your carrier ( if there is no other alternative) . wat if you gf parents marrysd her to someone due to their haste ... than you will land in grat depression and will find hard to come out. carrier can be build . you are just 2009 passout
i m a graduate an engg (EECE-2009 passout),i am a person who believes in hard work...coz it always pays but sometimes dunno what whether its destiny or something else that my belief on hard work dwindles.i got 91 % in 12th which i never expected on the other side was sure of a gud rank in AIEEE which didn come true 😞 then i didn expect anything in clg life ..dunno how i got top position in 1st yr and then scholarships through all the 4yrs (ofcourse i worked hard but didn do it to top in class)..may be it is like when i do it with intention it never comes true and when i do it without expectation it works...:P now got placed in SATYAM(doob gai..no joining),and then in iflex solutions now called as oracle financial solutions ...was very happy when i got placed...but still they havent provided joining...where as all other classmates got into infy ...nd i cudnt clear apti (a very big shock:-() cat 08 :80 %ile 😞 :(...got nervous and screwed VA nd DI 😞 :( in QA97 %ile ...dunno what happened in exam XAT 08:93%ile got call from GIM cudnt convert:-(:-( cat 09:41-42 attempts ...pata nai kya banega iska XAT 09:80 %ile va me 20%ile:banghead::banghead::banghead: last yr VA me 91%ile in XAT .....kya conclude karu.....is my VA that bad...??.:banghead::banghead: JMET09:58.5:banghead::banghead: it feels real bad....m sitting at home ...where as other ppl with avg marks got into infy and are about to get into projects...... CAT is the only hope left....its like yyyy did it happen with me....but that really doesnt mean i should suicide ....but still it feels like when i deserve something and am working hard for it then yyy m i not being provided with what i truely desire...where as there are many people who get things without even working hard....:nono:
me too have same story..... i also got placed at SATYAM.... it was the first company.... got thru it.... cudn't sit in other company as we were not entitled for "multiple placements".... was so happy after gettin satyam.... i cant forget those days... then misdeeds of ramalinga raju came into light.... was shattered to soul.... as i had planned to go for MBA after gettin 2 years experience at satyam.... after consultation with parents decided to go for mba... and joined a coaching institute.. tried hard.... applied for CAT... buked 1st DEC slot... here also i was ditched by "lady luck"... the test got rescheduled due to server problem.... test was rescheduled on 3rd dec... got paadhu paper.. so not sure about result of CAT... wrote jmet got 55 sumthin.....
took SNAP... got 100.00 marks... filled scmhrd siib and sibm banglore... was hoping to get calls from all the 3.... but thanks to plumenting cutoffs.... managed call from sibm b only..... took XAT... got 84.xx sumthing(i myself is to be blamed such a dismal score)....
anyways... came to banglore and started job hunting as was frustated with the rising cutoffs.... went to coimbatore for "accenture off campus drive".... cleared apti,gd,hr.... but cud not get through technical, as had lost touch with technical portion....
many of my friends got their joinings from the companies in which they were placed....
meanwhile satyam started giving selected calls... but the whole process is not at all transparent.... so no hopes whatsoever from satyam....
so.... after all these events of last 1 year... i sumtimes feel i am worthless, hopeless.... feel like a looser..... have lost all confidence.... have lost self-belief.... future appears dark....
i m a graduate an engg (EECE-2009 passout),i am a person who believes in hard work...coz it always pays but sometimes dunno what whether its destiny or something else that my belief on hard work dwindles.i got 91 % in 12th which i never expected on the other side was sure of a gud rank in AIEEE which didn come true 😞 then i didn expect anything in clg life ..dunno how i got top position in 1st yr and then scholarships through all the 4yrs (ofcourse i worked hard but didn do it to top in class)..may be it is like when i do it with intention it never comes true and when i do it without expectation it works...:P now got placed in SATYAM(doob gai..no joining),and then in iflex solutions now called as oracle financial solutions ...was very happy when i got placed...but still they havent provided joining...where as all other classmates got into infy ...nd i cudnt clear apti (a very big shock:-() cat 08 :80 %ile 😞 :(...got nervous and screwed VA nd DI 😞 :( in QA97 %ile ...dunno what happened in exam XAT 08:93%ile got call from GIM cudnt convert:-(:-( cat 09:41-42 attempts ...pata nai kya banega iska XAT 09:80 %ile va me 20%ile:banghead::banghead::banghead: last yr VA me 91%ile in XAT .....kya conclude karu.....is my VA that bad...??.:banghead::banghead: JMET09:58.5:banghead::banghead: it feels real bad....m sitting at home ...where as other ppl with avg marks got into infy and are about to get into projects...... CAT is the only hope left....its like yyyy did it happen with me....but that really doesnt mean i should suicide ....but still it feels like when i deserve something and am working hard for it then yyy m i not being provided with what i truely desire...where as there are many people who get things without even working hard....:nono:
exactly similar story here... 08 season got real bad in cat, 98% in xat..bt filled no colgs..(overconfidence)...sibm call..cdnt convert.. 09..sibm again..cdnt convert..xat 91%..no calls-jmet down the drain..iift..missed by 0.5 marks..list goes...
turned down infy offer for mba...tcs still to come..(ek saal ho gaya)..now sitting at home, counting my chickens..waiting for cat and applying for jobs..
i was really depressed when sibm list came out..2 yr on the row and rejected..talked to parents..man dey were really supportive.. remember my dad words " itne se daar gaye". ..felt really nice after talking to them and now ready to get y life back on track...time to repeat the cliched saying
"failures are pillars to success".. jst ask ur parents..and ul know..CHEERS
Once a while comes a person who pretends like he is some sort of a "truth doctor" who will tell things like it is. Your view on this is narrow, insensitive and tbh quite crap. And since, in your mind, you think you're some logic guru, let me tell you why in a way you will understand
Then why post? You could've very well stayed out and noone needed to hear your reckless comment. Forums work on that principle. Don't like it, don't click it. I bet not one person actually gained from your rhetoric where you're potraying others as pathetic people.
I bet you're a great person in life. I know many like you. They're not bad people. Just have alot of growing up to do. Especially in the thinking then saying department.
Look at u 'Mr Right' , first of all i never asked for ur so called expert comments on me, u want to comment ,comment on the topic not on the post. It's just the difference between u and me that I am not emotionally unsecure but u r, so save ur lecture for who are willing to hear it and not me, probably will help sm of the needy ppl. Lets not talk about who need to grow up and who doesnt becoz by saying so u are including urself too in the preacher list ...
All said I do agree with one point of yours that its a public forum and if i dont like smthg i can refrain from commenting , but as u said ppl are posting it on a public forum so nyone who wishes to comment can do so , and so i did , not mayb in the best way tht u want it to b, just as u did on my post.
So either preach and follow or dont advise unnecessary , I never asked for nythg , instead just post ur comments to the ppl who r adressing it to u. And u know wat the whole point is u could have avoided this long post by not choosing to comment so my dear Friend "choose carefully".
Look at u 'Mr Right' , first of all i never asked for ur so called expert comments on me, u want to comment ,comment on the topic not on the post. It's just the difference between u and me that I am not emotionally unsecure but u r, so save ur lecture for who are willing to hear it and not me, probably will help sm of the needy ppl. Lets not talk about who need to grow up and who doesnt becoz by saying so u are including urself too in the preacher list ...
All said I do agree with one point of yours that its a public forum and if i dont like smthg i can refrain from commenting , but as u said ppl are posting it on a public forum so nyone who wishes to comment can do so , and so i did , not mayb in the best way tht u want it to b, just as u did on my post.
So either preach and follow or dont advise unnecessary , I never asked for nythg , instead just post ur comments to the ppl who r adressing it to u. And u know wat the whole point is u could have avoided this long post by not choosing to comment so my dear Friend "choose carefully".
Ah. The irony.
You say you are not emotionally insecure and yet you go on a rampage denying everything I said. You're clearly not as well adjusted as you think.
Anyways, mate. I have no intentions of squabbling here. I kind of posted the obvious. I apologise if it came across as a personal attack but it wasn't meant to be. It was just a plea to tell you to keep the negativity out.
all i would say is ur status message says it all my dear friend as to y do u hav a desire to get into an argument and hence it is not an irony my dear friend but a state of ur mind.
all i would say is ur status message says it all my dear friend as to y do u hav a desire to get into an argument and hence it is not an irony my dear friend but a state of ur mind.
C'mon now. You made your point. I apologised for being too harsh. Now don't be an internet hardman.
