An IIT degree is not worth dying for
The IIT JEE 2016 results were out on April 27, 2016. While most who didn't make it to the JEE Advanced exam, fretted and fumed, one aspirant killed herself. And her score wasn't even so bad that she could not have made it to a decent engineering school. Her death which came as a shocker inspired another round of the blame game - who Is responsible for her death?
PaGaLGuY spoke to a cross section of people, an aspirant like her closely deals with in the coaching years - mainly parents, friends as in peer group and coaching institutes. Parents were quite sure that they do "not" pressurise their wards. "My son always wanted to become an engineer, so I only encouraged him," said one. Another said that the family constituted of engineers and academicians, so it is only natural the son takes the same route. For another family, engineering is a basic degree to grab. "After the degree, let her do what she wants," said the mother adding "she is anyway good in Maths, make sense she does engineering."
It's a madhouse in places like Koa and Hyderabad where most engineering coaching institutes are located. Visit those places during admission time and the mayhem is but to be witnessed. Parents, grandparents, agents, students thronging institute gates, the noise and commotion everywhere... The clamour to secure a seat is quite sickening, so to speak.
There are families who displace themselves during 'coaching years.' They travel bag, baggage, food, servant and pet to the coaching hubs. One doctor parent, started his practise in Kota, since she had shifted with her son there.
That's just the tip of pressure point.
Once admission is done, the coaching institutes begin to jiggle. Thankfully, a few admitted that a 'competitive' environment is created in the institute to goad students to do better. "The training we provide is intense and to the point. We expect students to match up because becoming an engineer is not easy," said one professor who teaches at one such coaching place.
Another said that if students study honestly and complete their weekly assignments, it does not seem like pressure at all. "Pressure gets created when students do not meet deadlines or expectations. Some set unreal expectations for themselves."
Engineering coaching years seem only a little less regimented than that of what the common man knows about the army. Students wake up before sunrise, and sleep after sunset. The day is strictly clocked - there is a time to eat, study, revise, homework, lunch, bathe, breakfast and everything else.
And so, the friends made during coaching years become a dear lot. Sadly, these friends have a bit of a play in the rigmarole too. A group of students who take coaching from the same institute and live in the same hostel in Kota said that whilst there is no visible competition amongst them, at some point they want to do better than the other. "We study together and know each others' weaknesses and strengths. While we do hope that all of us do well, it is natural that some will fare better than the other. That is sometime pressurising," said a candidate.
So, there is the parent, the coaching institute and the friend/peer who have all washed his hands of death of this 17 year old who jumped to her death from her hostel building. At the end, everyone will blame the education system and how rote learning, its mainstay, is the genesis of it all.
But the fact is that it all play a part and not to forget the student, who finds himself torn between what he/she wants to do, can do and is made to do. Today, it is no more about passing or failing an exam - it is about doing well and really well. Frankly, while an IIT degree is a coveted one, just not so coveted to give one's life for.